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Khennjo and GayGay – April 26, 2009

July-28-09

bees & honey, the moon and the bunny

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That would be the longest title I had posted so far, but didn’t that just get your attention?Yes, honey comes with bees, and somehow the moon and the bunny is related in reference to an old Chinese belief that the shadow on the moon is shaped like a rabbit making rice cakes!

We got back from a trip to KL and S’pore and we humbly admit that if we have loved our work a little bit more insanely, we couldn’t have pulled it off! Yes, we had to wait for more than two months to spend our honeymoon, but it was all worth it.

I wrote about watching a Rihanna concert in one of the airport restaurants and I think she’s got great talent. I never had a chance to watch her that closely before, although I’d admit, it took me a while to flush ‘umbrella’ out of my system with it’s Tagalog and Cebuan version. uhuh! I had miso soup that night and Ken helped himself to the evening paper.

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It was a three-hour and so flight to KL. I was agonizing over a troubled stomach and probably embarassed ken coz i was stiffening up in pain that he had to almost get an attendant to attend to me being the center of attention.

SUNDAY – July 12, 2009 – KL & JB

We arrived early morning at LCCT (Airport) and took a bus to KL Central. It seemed like a short ride coz Ken and I were asleep during the whole ride. We were hesitant to get a taxi as early as 2am coz we were told by Mac that Puduraya and Bukit Bintang, where the backpackers hotels are, is just 8 kilometers away, and we could walk. But we don’t know to which direction. We gave in to the taxi driver and he was kind enough to take us to a hotel we were sure wasn’t fully booked. We thought July wasn’t peak season for tourists to Malaysia, but we were probably wrong seeing ‘fully booked’ signs posted up on hotel entrances. We couldn’t describe how sleepy and tired we were, but because the whole place was new, it kept our minds up.

kl hotel in black

We took a warm shower at around 3am, but the airconditioner was centralized, and we don’t have the controls for it. We tried to snuggle up under not so thick sheets and drowsed off till it was 9am.

We weren’t sure if we want a traditional Malay breakfast, but couldn’t even decide on what we want. After a quick shower, we went around the block and found ourselves enthralled with malls that were opening up from each corner of that block. Yes, we surely were in the middle of the Bukit Bintang area. The Times Square mall across from where we were standing was also opening, and seeing Starbucks and Papa John’s as a potential breakfast rendezvous, we first took pictures of the building and crossed the street, while a monorail train rolled above.

After we checked out a store after another, we decided to buy a sim card and called up our friends in Malaysia. We found a very familiar fast food resto and ordered. Their KFC had really good side ketchup and chili sauce. Since I wanted to check out my farm in facebook, Ken decided to confine me to a coffee table at Starbucks and settled me there with all our luggage while I wait for Mac, and while he check out Low Yat.

Mac finally came, and after a couple of hours of window shopping and chatting with him, we had to get moving. Mac’s car is a MyVi made by Perudua-a Malaysian car company, and he is might comfortable in it. He drove us near the bus station where we were going to catch a bus for Johore Bahru.

My! Purchasing the ticket was as easy as 1,2,3 but to wait for a bus wasn’t easy on our backs and feet.

JB bus

It seemed like they over sold their tickets and there was just too many passengers that day. Their dispatchers were no different from our ‘barkers’ in the Philippines, only we couldn’t understand a word they were ‘barking’ on to their walkie-talkies. We had to follow the guy up across the road from the bus station like a mother duck with disoriented ducklings after being cooped up close to being baked inside a burrow. It was really warm. Luckily, there was a bus in coming from I don’t know where, and just before you’d say John Jacob Jingle Heimer Schmidt, Ken and I hopped on a couple of seats at the front. The bus was big and we were comfortable. We both were armed with a digital still camera and a videocam, so we took the leisure of shooting through the wide windshields. After a couple of toilet stopovers, we arrived Johore Bahru at around 10pm.

Abel, Vivian and their two-year-old Yena were there to meet us. The little girl immediately captivated both Ken and I and as opposed to her usual shyness meeting strangers, she was already trying to make a conversation with us.

The Banas reside in an apartment compound, up at a higher floor level, enjoying the wind and the breeze blowing through every day. From their window, we can see the skyline, and just a serene community with a few Filipinos who work in JB.

sunrise at JB

JULY 13, 2009 – MONDAY (Bana’s Residence and getting to Singapore)

Abel was already up earlier than any of us to hunt for a traditional Malay breakfast. It was Nasi Lemak for me, and Ken pick-eating on the sides with a cup of yogurt to satisfy him. We tried to go out and take some pictures of the sunrise but forgot to tell Vivian to unbolt the door-although we did enjoy the colors from our window angle that were part of the rising sun. We had worship while Yena was leading out in the songs and were soon downstairs taking pictures in their pool area. Yena wasn’t afraid to jump in the water, but her mom was holding her (coat) tail.

gai n yenaken n yena
Johore Bahru is also a beautiful city, and while driving around, we enjoyed a little bit of their displayed architecture details although JB is booming with factories and big transporter trucks coming from both all directions.

ken w banas
The bus ride to Singapore was merely an hour, and we had to get off twice for immigration check. The AH1N1 flu virus is truly a scare in this area, something like from back home – and everywhere in the terminals, hand washing instructions, soap and hand sanitizers adorn toilets and sinks.

(Dickson Road, Singapore)

When we arrived at Kranji terminal, we took an MRT into the city of Singapore, and like turtles, had our belongings packed on our backs. At the train, Ken started talking to another Filipino and so we got to know Bernie Abella who was residing for 12 years in Singapore. He is also into photography and was sharing the interest with Ken. He gave us a tip on where to connect our train ride.

Rolling into Singapore and seeing the city was a pleasure.  We started walking into the inner districts and tried to spot backpackers hotel, until we had to check into an internet café and check out the addresses. We found ourselves wandering in the streets of Little India.

little india

We found Footprints Backpackers hotel and bistro. It was kind of cheap, but we had to share the room with other backpackers, with separate common bathrooms for men and ladies. After checking in –

…we were ready for Sentosa.

sentosa

southernmost tipthe peacockssentosa merlion

The picturesque nooks of the Island of Sentosa were countless. It was overwhelming to think that it was mostly man-made. We took pictures at the beach, climbed a wooden gazebo tower and wandered around. There were many shows available, but we resorted to the regular light show, said hello to the stingrays displayed outside the Underwater World and road their buggies and buses around the Island. Since the evening show wasn’t scheduled till a bit after 8pm, we tried the luge and the cable ride.

luge

Snaphots after snapshots when by, and after some recorded footage, we ran to the open amphitheater to watch the story of a fish named Oscar.

Coming back on a short train ride to Vivo City, we strode along the business center of Singapore and asked around for directions. At last we could say hello to the Merlion.  We took about a hundred more shots and took the last train to Little India.

merlion in hand

Tuesday, July 12, 2009 – Singapore Flyer, Jurong Bird Park, Night Safari

Instead of getting ready to head back to KL, we decided to stay another day in Singapore. So our first itinerary for Tuesday is to ride the Singapore Flyer and get a 360 ride to get a bird’s eye view of Singapore. We grabbed lunch at Popeye’s and in minutes, we hopped on to the hatch because the wheel doesn’t stop for riders to mount. It just goes nonstop till it calls it a day. We grabbed a walkie-talkie thingamajig that gets you on a recorded tour as you refer to a map provided by the nice ladies at the entrance below. It’s a 30-minute ride and Ken and I got a hatch all to ourselves! But we couldn’t get enough of the view so for two-thirds of the time up there, each of us with a camera, we took shots and footages of city. It was neat, awesome and ‘tight’!

flyerhatchlings

Ken got this promo package that includes an hour bus ride around the city, so soon after we hopped off from the rotating flyer, we headed to the second deck of a bus and again, risked ourselves to neck strain because you’ll have to look up and around. Regardless of the sun’s heat, Ken went to the back to get  clear view for photo opps, and I stayed under a roof and held on to my Popeye’s.

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Since there was no MRT that would take us straight to the Jurong Bird Park so we took a the bus that took us straight to the birds. One of our favorites was the family of hornbills and toucans. Two birds got too friendly with each other that they started to peck on the wall that was keeping them away from each other. There were definitely Filipino workers at the park, and although one spoke a bit of Tagalog to us, we were just a trivia to them. Our guess is that out of the hundreds of Filipinos that came to see the park, another pair of Pinoys that day is just a usual sight.

bird

We also bought tickets to the night safari, but the bus left without us, so we had to go back to the city and get another bus to the safari, which was a cheaper option. The safari ride was a bit pricey for us, so we opted for the free shows. A Malay fire dance on the limelight. The dancers wanted him to dance, but I guess each one of them were talking many different things to him and it all happened so fast. It’s just good that they didn’t sear Ken’s tongue although they did send him back smelling like kerosene. There was an animal show where an Indian young lady was presenting. She became everyone’s instant favorite! The wolf was pretty, the Puma was captivating and the badger was shy. We got all worked up with the animals that the show was just too short.

night safWe already soiled two Singapore City maps to this point, and my slipper strap broke. So I have to limp all the way to the bus and all the way to a discussion whether or not we want to go to the hotel to drop our cameras while I limp back and forth or head to Mustafa first to buy me a pair of slippers and agonize on the bulk of the two cameras.

Now help me decide.

Ahh! Too late! We decided just mount our cameras and strap ‘em on our backs and negotiate between the crowd and narrow aisles in Mustafa which actually took us a while to find. Iris told us about Mustafa and how so much stuff under the sun can be found there.

I wanted a pony!

Wednesday, July 15 – Footprints Backpacker’s Hotel and Bistro

Woke up at around 9.30 to two beds in our room already empty. We slept like a log not hearing the two other occupants pack up and leave.
We went to purchase tickets to KL at Lavender street and found our way to a bus that dropped us off Thomson Road. We met Erickson and Jackie Fabien, Debbie Chan and Lucy Ho and Pastor Simon Siew who took us to Thomson Plaza for lunch and got us a taxi back to the bus terminal for KL.

flew

One of our passengers was an Indonesia seaman – based on our wildest guess, and he didn’t make it to the bus after we passed through Woodlands Immigration. We breathed a prayer for him that he’d be able to locate his stuff where the driver, on his own initiative, left it at the Transnational terminal in Johore Bahru. I was also stopped at the Malaysian immigration after my backpack passed through the scanner. Vivian sent her friends some chocolate and toiletries which she packed in a small paper bag. It looked very compact, therefore suspicious. But the security was kind. It was good the deuter bag had a bottom pocket where I don’t have to take everything including my undies out just to get to that bag.

Simon Siew had arranged that we stay with his brother and sis-in-law. We got to know their daughter, Amanda, and learned that she would be joining the missionary media in Malacca which is started by a group of Adventists (independent ministry) that gathers Chinese volunteers to produce religious Christian Mandarin radio programs. This would be the first batch to try out. Their son Elroy is staying with uncle Simon Siew in Singapore for his schooling in Marine Engineering. Jackson and Emelyn Siew operates their small business of pest control.

During our stop at a terminal for a meal, the bakeshop cashier asked if I was Chinese or Indonesian. That is just to confirm Ken telling me that I somehow look like one.

We were able to catch a glimpse of the KL tower and the Petronas Twin Towers.

twin

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May-12-09

hors-d’oeuvres

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Not more than one can actually pronounce this work correctly. I’m having problems with it as well. :) To make it easier, we shall list what might whet the appetite after the wedding ceremony:

Drinks Unlimited (Mango and Pineapple and Soda)

Sliced Fruit in Season

Greek Salad

Nuts Assorted

French Toast Roll, Mini-Puto, Cocktail Sandwiches, Kebobs, Chicken Lolli, Kimbop

Chocolate Fountain and Dipees

stuffed Baked Potato with topping

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May-12-09

my wedding shoes

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I got these pair of silver shoes that Lingling helped me spot from a mall in Manila. I had an ideal pair in mind, but couldn’t find a pair like it, so i got to fall in love with what is available.

Late last week, our dear labrador, Schazi, chewed on it. You’d think how sweet and calm a d 36-kilo yellow lab could be, but i guess he was bored to pieces and focused his attention on the silver shoes i temporarily put in a box in the garage :(

I used it twice after the wedding and that’s it.. :( sayang talaga!

my silver shoes
my silver shoes

And it looked like this after Shashi decided to chew on it …

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May-12-09

Certificate of Marriage

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Finally! After 15 days since the wedding, we have filed our ‘marriage contract’ sa Municiaplity of Silang!!! (hehe!) And yes, we should admit that we had to go through a lot of changes. Super pa balik-balik! Our most sincere thanks to Dr. ‘Kiko’ Gayoba who untiringly guided us through the whole process. One of the challening part of the whole thing is that he is based in Pasay, and so we have to travel the 36 kilometers through traffic, sleet, snow, storm and hail (yes, i over exaggerate).

For everyone’s information and advantage (if you’re needing info and are getting married), you have to prioritize your wedding license and/or marriage contract. The Philippine National Stat Office is very particular on erasures, misspellings, font size and position of the details in the marriage contract. The font size should be the common ’12′ which makes the data still visible even after the NSO microfilms it 20% smaller. You don’t have to put in your mailing address when it’s only the residence address/location they are asking for. Putting in too much of information fills the squares/slots and overcrowds it. I think the best advise we could give is ask ask ask and do prioritize on the contract right after the wedding.

It is very hard to type it manually on the traditional/electronic typewriter, and mind you DO NOT USE carbon paper. One mistake costs you several sheets. If you do think that it is hard to type details this way, Ken has developed the idea of putting it in the computer using whatever software available and estimate that the printing hits the right slots. Anyone can do it. :)

There really is a reason why I put this blog under OUT FAVORITES since this has been one of our favorite experiences after the wedding :)

Our Certificate of Marriage registry number is 2009-400 and finally the legal process is completed!

I just hope that there wouldn’t be any future problems coz the local NSO office had to get our cellphone numbers. hehe!

Oh well…

cert2

cert1

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April-23-09

The Stag Party

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Ken writes…

I rarely gets surprised because of my phlegmatic side…

But about an hour ago, I was totally stupefied! It was pure shock-and-awe when friends decided to throw a stag party. I think it help explain if  we go back with how it developed a few days earlier…

Randall, the best man asked me and Gay last week to have April 23 booked as he’s taking us both out for dinner as a treat.

Gay writes…

So we had our skeds lined up coz we don’t want to miss anyone’s invitation. As a matter of fact, a confusion started when unintentionally the so called ‘secret’ was spilt and somehow got entangled with their plans. Turned out that they were trying to make up a story and came down to two invitations that was conflict. I don’t know about them, but the real drama was when after I bade goodbye to our musicians who practiced that afternoon in SSD, Randy, in all his glory and sweat-dressed up, came up and ‘complained’ that Ken at home wasn’t even ready to take off yet. He had to go back and hurry him up and said I’d meet them at the compound gate.  Knowing Randy, I was sure he was all stressed out.

Right when I met the guys at the gate, my cellphone rang and it was my boss calling from Davao. He wanted me to go to their house and deliver a box to a lady leaving for Indonesia! Talk about timing! Randy and Ken was yelling from the car to get in, I couldn’t coz it was my boss! I called and the young lady who was house-sitting for them didn’t want to deliver the box herself and wanted me to go over there. I called the guest house coordinator, the facilities coordinator and met colleagues coming in through the gate asking where the lady was so i could deliver it to the gate. By that time, Randy and Ken had joined me at the guard house, my cellphone on the left ear, and the intercom (phone) on the right ear.

So Randy readily suggested that we just go over to my boss’s house and get the box and deliver it ourselves! Ken doesn’t want to coz he thought it’d hold up our appointment with Randy. But Randy was insistent and I couldn’t turn my boss down.

When we pulled up in front of the house, I wanted the guys to just get the box and load it in the car. Ken came back out and told me that I should get the box.

And the s’prise was there! It was mainly for Ken! :) ) We had our dear friends join in and they just made up the whole thing. A table was full of food and we wasted the night away on videoke!

I called my boss and the facilities chairman explaining what happened. It’s a good thing I wasn’t able to call the particular lady whom I was going to deliver the box to. Because she definitely was just inside the campus.

Gay writes again…

Sorry, i wanted so much to be articulate and be discriptive here, but there are just some things left silently remembered and laughed about than told. LOL!

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April-21-09

How He Came Up with It

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invite

Ken is the artist, I’m more of his appreciating committee.

We’ve been discussing back and forth for 2 months on how we’re going to come up with the invitations. Since our motif is black and white (with a hint of bloue and silver for accent), we wanted something very simple without compromising how special it means to us.

The design was basically done in Photoshop playing with different brush designs and making the best of the two colors, basically black and white. We didn’t want to cut, shape or hunt too much for the perfect size of paper, so we settled for the letter-size specialty paper, a few tanks of computer ink, and late nights. Khennjo made an emboss mold out of illustration board and Randall came to press and emboss, while Iris professionally folded every piece of invitation.

We just started giving out the invites yesterday, (Monday).

hehe! you wanna beat that? :D

-GayGay

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April-21-09

The forecast calls for a SHOWER

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April 22, 2009

The Best Bridal Shower according to me!

They got all the works! balloons, a bubble machine, sweet gifts, awesome food, laughter fun! a bunch of videos, and pretty witty advice from two very new to marriage. hehe! :) I’ll share pics and will tell ya more bout it — love, gaygay

April 21, 2009

“The forecast calls for a SHOWER”

Is the heading of the invitation Bonnie handed to me yesterday.

Wow! Do I really need a shower? (hehe!) I can just wonder what’s cookin’, but i can’t wait to see what these gurls are up to. I used to do this kinda stuff, but I guess it’s a sweeter thing to just sit back and wonder what could scare you more: a box of condoms as you unwrap a present, or lingerie that’s 1% nylon 99% flesh.hehe!

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